come to my show. i'll talk to you. >> just because you have basically done how many thousands of shows have you done yourself over the years as a guest? >> we were laughing right before the show. i sat with merv griffin and dinah shore and i mean, many, many countries, five decades of sitting in this chair, and i don't know, maybe it's because i've sat in this chair for so many years, i think i kind of know how they feel, how to help them say what they need to say, what's really important, why they're in this chair, and what has to, you know, sustain them over the years and it's really fun. it's been interesting so far, because we've taped a couple shows, that people are disclosing things to me that we have never talked about this before, and maybe they just know that i'm -- i guess i'm nice, but they're talking about eating disorders they grew up with and how it defined who they are now and growing up in a family of hoarders and how that influenced them, and changed their life path.